How To Pick Up Women - Closing

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by Jimmy Black

Are you at the point now where you can get a girl to talk to you and show interest, but are for some reason still having problems with closing? It's something that I'm passionate about figuring out. Recently I got the chance to speak to some people about it and they gladly told me how they go about closing.

'The' Stare

I'd say that most of you know what 'the' stare is. It's when you get to the point where you just know by the way she's looking at you, that she wants to start getting physical. I think it's not so much about reading the signs, but instead 'acting' on them.

Sit back and really think about all the times you've been in a situation like this. An opportunity to make first contact, but for some reason you just couldn't go through with it. You know the more I sit and ponder this whole pickup game I start to realize the difference between a really good PUA and the rest is they they actually act on the signs given to them.

My Example

Just last week I was at a party and there were a few cute girls there. I spent most of the night just joking around and negging the crap out of most of them, until suddenly one responded and hence an opportunity arose.

We made our way outside and I gotta tell ya I was getting IOI's left right and center, the shoulder punch, the look over her shoulder back at me and finally we were alone outside.

She decided to sit down on the staircase...by herself. I sat down next to her, I was reading the situation perfectly, and then...'THE' stare. I let myself think, "this is just too easy, maybe she DOESN'T want to kiss you" and before I knew it the moment had passed and we both got up and walked away.

You can see what I mean by not acting on the signs given to you. How important the IOI really is when it comes to the process of closing, but even more important is the action you take from those signs.

Looking back on it now I'm 100% sure the kiss close was there for the taking, I just happened to let my fear of rejection take hold. I'm not bitter, I never get bitter. I know this is all just a game and the more you take part in it, the faster your skills will develop. I'm just excited about how I will react next time with this type of knowledge.

I'm one of those guys that had no luck with the ladies all through high school until one day I was introduced to the world of Pickup Artists If you want to learn how to pick up women then get your @?! over to YouSarge.com

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